Filed under: Uncategorized | Tags: Dreams, Friends, frustration, multiple partners, porn, sex with friends, threesome, touching
After what has been yet another ‘dry spell’, I had the craziest of dreams last night.
Best Friend has been going through a hell I don’t wish upon anyone. She has some big, life-changing decisions to make and she hasn’t been communicating lately. I worry a bit, but this is how she deals with things.
She had mentioned something about her getting in trouble for sending a text to an old boyfriend. I know his name and I’ve seen a picture of him. He is recently divorced and I think that most guys that get divorced go through their old ‘black book’ and see what everyone’s doing. Maybe it’s a transition or maybe it’s just that it’s easier to go back to somewhere you’ve been rather than starting over. Whatever.
Best Friend and I have been trying to plan a day where we can just hang out together and hold each other. It really has not ever been sexual other than neither of us gets that touchy-closeness from our respective spouses. Times have never matched up for us to successfully pull it off, maybe for the better.
Anyway. In this dream we plan an early evening of watching a movie at some place. In the dream it sort of was like a nice hotel. It wasn’t my house or any place that I had recognized. I was there, she came over. She went to change into some sweats/pajamas and I was already in the same. We had some DVD movies to watch and had put something in. We had settled on a big couch – although it was deeper than normal.
We cuddled up together, she was behind me and I was in front. She was commenting on how good this felt and we both were saying how much our spouses miss out on this. The next thing I know, this friend of hers is on the other side of her, spooning her from that side. Strangely, it was if it were all planned. Neither of us seemed surprised by his addition. He started rubbing her through her pajamas; her hips, her back, and around to her chest. He was kissing the back of her neck. Watching the movie was pretty much difficult as the two of them were really getting into each other.
I moved a bit out of the way and they were stripping down. I was amazed at how pretty she looked and shared a combination happiness feeling for her that she was getting what she has wanted and an aroused feeling of watching what was going to be happening in front of me. They were taking turns orally – she sucking on him and his licking her. The sounds that they were making were putting me over the edge.
He had turned her around so that he was mounting her from behind and she was facing towards me. My erection was quite noticeable and Best Friend reached over and started rubbing my penis through my pants. It was awkward, but seemed right for some reason. Her friend stopped and she flipped over on her back, her legs were off the side of the couch and he stepped in between her legs and started again. She was lying there – very happy – and I moved over and started kissing her breasts. She was startled at first, but soon started really getting into the whole thing.
The thing that I remember most was the sheer look of joy on her face. It was like she had been waiting forever to be the center of attention – a bizarre, content, happy look. Her friend stopped thrusting and went down on her. The combination of his mouth on her pussy and my mouth on her nipples and breasts resulted in her screaming – a lot! Her happy expression was something that I had not seen on her in many, many years.
There was a knock on the door that interrupted everything – they ran off to the bedroom and I opened the door. It was a manager-type person asking if everything was okay. I assured them it was probably the TV and shut the door after they looked around me. I went into the bedroom.
He was sitting on the edge of the bed leaning back on his arms – her face was busy in his lap. She was enjoying his cock and I was still a bit uneasy about the whole situation. She moved up into the bed and he laid down behind her. She asked me to come closer and I faced her. The next hour or so was a blur of both she and I kissing, fondling, touching, tweaking, – her in the middle of us. I never saw him – she always faced me. Again, the look on her face was priceless.
I don’t remember that I ever penetrated her. We touched, kissed, played with each other’s hair. But I don’t remember it going any further for us.
She had come a few times in the front room and several more times in the bed. When her friend could do no more, he collected his clothes and kissed her good-bye. He and I never said a word to the other during the whole thing.
After he left, she and I took a bath together and rinsed off in the shower. We got back into our pajamas and went back to the sofa.
We assumed the original position and started the movie again – almost as if it was all planned that way.
I woke up with the hardest erection I have had in the longest time. I had this strange feeling like I had done something I shouldn’t have. Great. Guilt from my dreams…
I had my first dream involving Best Friend in February – post here. I don’t know if this is a healthy thing or not a good thing. This dream had a bit more involvement but still no fucking involving the two of us.
Best Friend is going through some hell where she is having a medical procedure done and her husband is all of the sudden too busy to care for her. He’s such an asshole. How hard would it be to actually man-up and take some responsibility and show some caring for a day? I talk to my wife and see if it’s okay if BF stays at our place to recoup. My wife likes BF so there was no problem there.
I let BF know that the opportunity is there for her – a place where someone responsible will take care of her and it would be one less thing for her to worry about.
She was very happy for the offer, but I could tell that she wasn’t really going to go through with it. I can’t blame her. How do you tell your husband that if HE’S not going to take care of her, that she’ll go to her friends’ house? It doesn’t work. I made her laugh that my wife expressed reservations at first, but that I talked her into that it would be okay for the three of us in one bed.
Deep – WAY DEEP in the back of my head, I wasn’t joking about the situation. That’s a strange feeling to have. It’s not that I want to have sex with BF – I just want to feel loved sometimes. Would that come from sharing a bed? I at least feel that BF would touch me.
Filed under: Uncategorized | Tags: Dreams, Friends, Sex Observations, Spouses, threesome
Whoa.
Last night or this morning – I’m not quite sure when – I had a dream where I was in bed and my wife was in her ‘normal’ spot to my right. It varied from being light outside to being dark and that confused me a bit more. I felt someone get into the bed on my left side. I assumed it was a kid as that’s not that out-of-the-ordinary.
You know that feeling that you can judge the size of the person getting in bed by the way the mattress compresses? Well, this was an adult getting in bed.
In my laziness, I sort of looked and it was Best Friend!
The fact that she was in bed was not surprising enough for me to notice – kind of like it was normal.
In my dream, I stayed ‘asleep’ but kept trying to get the dream to get more involved. I would picture the two of them kissing, caressing, eachother.
I need to get this part out in the open – I have never had a sexual dream involving Best Friend. Yes, last year I got a hard on while hugging her goodbye once at lunch. Yes, we long to have someone hold us since we don’t get that from our spouses and we have thought of ways to have a cuddle session but again – not sexual. I don’t know why multiple partners hasn’t ever been on my lists of things to do. I think it’s partly because I tend to think things through a bit too much.
Two Guys/One Girl – The thought of watching some other guy fuck my wife is not a turn on. I can’t think of any reason to watch this happen. I would be pissed off – no matter how much she may enjoy it. If there were something that someone else could do for her that I was physically unable to do for her… maybe – but I cannot think of an instance. Watching her flirt with someone or watching her in a crowd setting – like dancing – is a bit different in that I always knew that she was going home with me. Sex though – don’t see it. The bi-guy thing isn’t going to work with me either. I have gone on record in the past that given the situation where you didn’t know who was sucking your dick – a blowjob from a guy would be no different from a blowjob from a girl. I have never been in that situation but I’m just saying that if it were dark and somebody just started sucking my dick – I would not think ‘hey, this tongue seems more masculine’. Me sucking someone’s dick – not going to happen – ever. Some guy fucking me – never going to happen.
Two Girls/One Guy – I think that guys are brought up thinking that this would be the coolest thing. I always think that the guy is the ‘third wheel’ in this situation. It’s almost physically impossible to pay attention to both girls at the same time and at that point that you do cum, you have almost lost your usefulness to the party. I’m not saying its not possible – I just don’t think it’s very realistic. Having two girls pleasure me – that would be nice but again, not very realistic. I have to concentrate so hard on NOT cumming that there is not way that I could handle that kind of dual stimulation. Is what I’m getting at is that it would be a quick release and then I’m pretty much just another pair of hands and mouth for a bit. If the two girls were bi-curious it could be a bit more exciting but again I would have to ask what that other girl could offer to my wife that I couldn’t offer? Is it arousing to watch two girls go down on eachother or just to see a really passionate kiss? Hell yes! Is it still arousing if one of those girls is your wife? Sadly, not as much for me.
Deep down I think those who are able to enjoy sex with multiple partners have to have a very strong relationship and communication. To be able to wash away the fear that your partner would enjoy someone else more than you or even to the point of leaving you for someone different because of something that was done during a session is pretty amazing. Those who do enjoy it that write blogs seem very confidant with eachother or are so young in the relationship that it doesn’t mean much if the relationship soured.
Anyway, back to my dream. So I’m in my bed with my wife and my best friend. They are in jammies and I’m in my underwear. Still dreaming, I try to picture them together and try to imagine them kisssing, undressing, and more. The dream never goes anywhere.
The whole dream was just the three of us in bed. Nothing more. Best friend cuddled up next to me and wife didn’t seem to mind at all.
I woke up happy that I was touched but a bit weirded out by the whole crazy dream.
Filed under: Sexual History | Tags: Having Sex, Sexual History, strippers, threesome
In looking at my current situation, I have to look back at my life. Mostly this is to see if I can see a pattern or to see if I can see possible reasons for my current situation.
Disclaimer – my recollection of the SP order in this series is hindered by my alcoholic and drug induced haze.
One of the bands that came through to play featured a pair of girl singers. I totally had the hots for one of them. We would flirt, drink, and do some drugs together but it never really went anywhere. After their work at my place, they decided to stay in the city for a while. I don’t remember the exact details but the band broke up and the two singers started dancing at one of the strip clubs for money. I went to their hotel one day to say hi and the singer that I was NOT interested in was getting out/into the shower. She was tall, much more endowed than I had ever thought, and much more pretty than I had remembered. I think that the other singer noticed this and got kind of jealous. I was going out of town to see a band, the band from SP17 and she agreed to go with me. Something happened where she was supposed to go with me, like in the same car but something came up. In transit, we played phone tag and she was going to meet me out there. She ended up coming to my hotel and we just hopped into bed. She had what I remember as a little ‘finger’ inside her when we were playing around. At the time I just thought it was freaky, but it probably was just a larger than normal clitoris. When I inserted my penis, it was noticeably different and brought me to climax in, oh, about a minute. This did not make her very happy and I offered to do more but was stopped. Imagine driving half a day for a rendezvous to have it end within 60 seconds! Nothing more happened sexually.
SP18 Recap: Chalk another poor performance up to killing any future.
SP18 Side Note: We stayed friends for a few years and she ended up involved with one of my bosses for almost ten years! I had my one chance at a threesome with her and her friend later in life but alas, I was married and actually made a good decision on that one. Last I heard, she still had a serious drug problem.
