Frustrated at Forty

I spoke with Best Friend (B.F.) tonight and she is so frustrated with her husband.  She shaved, wore something slinky, and he did nothing.  She had to take care of herself, well… herself.  Based upon my decision to refrain from pleasing myself – I couldn’t comment much.  We had the same discussion that we have had – what is wrong with us that our spouses won’t make love to us?  It’s really sad.